Monday, January 25, 2010
Where have we been?
I'm taking a break from blogging for a while. A lot going on, and I'm not inspired to write/blog.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Happy 2010!
We have had several family parties over Cowboys games, as they are now in the playoffs. Kent got his own jersey from his Texas grandparents for Christmas. So he has been looking like the avid Cowboys fan. His Aunt Amanda enjoys playing with him whenever she can.
To celebrate Christmas with our Texas family, we enjoyed a delicious brunch at Billy & Paula's. Even Kent made the picture this year. Grandmother Rhodes wasn't feeling very well that day, so she wasn't there. But she was missed. We love you and hope you get to feeling better soon!
Happy 2010, everyone! I need to go, Kent is calling (or should I say fussing) my name!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Christmas 2009
Here is a picture at my Grandma Teeter's house of all of us Collins/Rhodes together for a family pic. It was so fun hanging out with mom, dad, Kristen, Tim & Julie. Kent did all kinds of fun tricks for them, and was a joy to be around.
Here is a picture of Great-Grandpa & Great-Grandma Teeters with us and Kent on Christmas Eve. It is a tradition for my grandparents to come over for a special Christmas Eve dinner every year at my parent's house. Over the years mom has prepared some delicious meals, which are fun memories to talk about to this day. This year she made a roast turkey, Grandpa Collins' sausage dressing, mashed potatoes, green beans, homemade rolls, and baked alaska for dessert. Yum!
Here are all of the "kids" (as my parents would say) on Christmas morning, with the addition of Kent. Don't we look cute in our new pajamas from my mom? (another tradition: mom buys us all new pajamas on Christmas Eve, which we open in a gift. This way, the pictures of us on Christmas morning actually look good instead of us being in old ratty pajamas).
A Rhodes Family picture in front of the tree on Christmas Eve. Kent kind of has a smile, which is the best we can do for now. Our camera flashes are just too slow for this fast guy.
Aunt Julie & Uncle Tim being the proud aunt & uncle on Christmas Eve. They had such a fun time with little Kent, along with Aunt Kristen.
What a blessing it was to be able to travel to Ohio for Christmas. We didn't get snow on Christmas day (but Dallas did...weird!), but did get some snow a few days later, which was beautiful.
Hope everyone else out there had a blessed Christmas!
Monday, December 21, 2009
Merry Christmas!
Paula added a link to this blog in her post today (www.paularhodes.com), so she motivated me to update a post on my own blog as well.
This month our little Kent turned 6 months old. Time really is flying by fast watching him grow up. I really am enjoying him more & more now that he is awake & happier for longer stretches of time. He loves to do all kinds of tricks...sucks on his toes, rolls over both ways, is almost sitting up (right now sitting by being propped), makes a spitting noise with his mouth, and smiles/laughs at Pepper the dog. I don't know what it is about Pepper, but Kent will smile/laugh the most at our dog!
This past month I weaned Kent from breastfeeding, which became more & more difficult while I was working. My goal was to make it 6 months, which I did. The combination of working, Kent having a bottle at the daycare most days, Kent getting a bad cold/stuffy nose, and his mommy's milk supply decreasing just made it easier to wean. He is doing great on the cheap formula from Target, which I'm thankful for, and is pretty much over his reflux issues....thank you God! He has been eating rice cereal for the past few weeks, and just this past Saturday we started him on vegetables. He loves his carrots so far and much prefers to eat them over his rice cereal.
He is still sleeping well at night, sleeping around 10 hours at night during the week, and 11-12 hours at night on weekends. The reason he doesn't sleep as well during the week is because he doesn't get good naps at the daycare and the daycare doesn't follow babywise, but we have found a system that seems to work as best it can in the current situation. I'm just glad he sleeps through the night & to have some type of routine to follow that works for me and for Kent.
I'm thinking Kent is starting to cut his first tooth, so we'll see how that goes over the coming weeks/months.
Here is a picture from the North Davis church Christmas musical. Kent was asked to be baby Jesus, and I was asked to be mother Mary. Here we are in our costumes the day of the musical. Kent did well for the practice, but not so hot during the actual performance. It was his naptime and he cried/fussed the whole time. I ended up using a pacifier on stage to get him to be quiet, which everyone at church found rather humorous! Many people commented "I don't think Mary had a pacifer" after the show, but I believe pacifiers were created to be used at this day in time. So it was pretty fun to be a part of that show.
That's about our life in a nutshell right now. I'm hoping to be able to blog more after the holidays when things will hopefully slow down some. Probably the best way to stay in touch with our lives is to be our friend on facebook, as pictures are easier to upload to that website than blogger.
Many blessings to everyone for a Merry Christmas!
Monday, November 16, 2009
November 2009 Ohio Grandparents Visit
Here is a pic of Kent in his Sunday school class at church. I finally got around to bringing my camera to church and snapped a quick pic for the mems. It will be fun someday when Kent & all of his friends (Kyle, Addison, Nate, & Mackenzie) are older and we can look back at this picture. Such a sweet group of babies!
I'm thankful that mom & dad are taking the time to see Kent as he develops throughout his first year. What a blessing when they come to visit.
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Happy Halloween!
This past week everyone in transplant at work dressed up in 50's/Grease costumes for the annual fall festival. Since I was in Grease in high school and already had a pink ladies jacket left over from my costume in high school, I had a pretty easy costume. Kent wore a pumpkin onesie to daycare the day of the fall festival.
We didn't get adventurous & go out around the neighborhood this year, but I have a feeling it will be different in the years to come as Kent gets older & figures out how much he likes candy.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Singing in the Car...
I think that my little Kent is going to be a singer someday, just like his mama. This morning in the car on our ride to work, I was singing along to a Zoe Group song. After a few minutes, I noticed that Kent was cooing to himself in the backseat to the tune of the song that was being played. He did this the entire way to work! I thought to myself, "I think he is singing in baby language!" He doesn't sing to all types/genres of music that are played, but he really does like the Zoe Group.
So there you go....our little singing Kent already, at 4 months old! Guess I'll need to video this sometime at home soon!
So there you go....our little singing Kent already, at 4 months old! Guess I'll need to video this sometime at home soon!
Saturday, October 24, 2009
4 months old!
What's new with us? Well, honestly, we are in a pretty good routine at the moment. I have made a better adjustment at working full time and being a mom full time, and of course being a wife full time. Between doing all of these jobs, there is little time for much else lately.
Kent is now on a 4 hour feeding schedule, which he transitioned to pretty well last week. The daycare did an awesome job at working with me to get him transitioned, so thank you again!
So what is my day like on the 4 hour schedule? Here ya go, in case you are interested:
5:30am: mom wakes up, does BSF lesson, reads newspaper, drinks coffee, gets ready for the day
7am: wake up, feed Kent.
7:30-9am: playtime with Kent, keep him awake
9am-11am: morning nap
11-11:30am: feed Kent
11:30-1pm: playtime with Kent, keep him awake
1pm-3pm: afternoon nap
3pm: feed Kent
3:30pm-5:30pm: playtime with Kent, keep him awake
5:30pm-7:00pm: evening cat nap (he usually won't sleep the whole time). This is usually when I can fit in a workout. And no, I don't have much time to cook these days. Instead, I choose to workout. It's either workout or cook, and I choose to workout.
7:00pm: feed Kent
8:00pm: bedtime
What makes this schedule difficult? Well, church, for one. Don't get me wrong, but you see on here that church falls right smack dab in the middle of his morning nap. This is why he isn't the happiest baby at church at times. But I'm not going to just sit at home & wait for him to grow out of his morning nap & not go to church. So I end up dealing with a cranky baby most of Sunday, but such is life....ya know? Another thing that makes this schedule hard is doing much in the evenings. If we go out to eat, we usually go around 5:30pm, with all of the old people & people with kids. If we make plans with friends, the early bedtime can be a problem. So the schedule is great if you are at home, but not so great if you want to "go out." Sometimes this is when I end up doing the grocery shopping. This way, Kyle can have his alone time and I can get to the store without a huge crowd.
Life as a mom is wonderful & rewarding, but a definite adjustment. As you can tell, there isn't much time in my day to get things done. It may seem like that I have tons of time, but let me tell you...until you walk in my shoes, you will see the value of a few precious moments alone.
I haven't added solids to his diet yet, as I've heard it's pretty messy & to hold off as long as possible. Right now Kent is doing pretty well just on breastmilk, so this is what I'll plan on doing for now.
Thanks for all of your continued prayers for us as we continue to adjust to life as new parents. We are loving it, but can definitely say it's the hardest job we've both ever done...and, it never, ever stops!
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Aunt Kristen Visit's, and Brett turns 26!
Kristen watched Kent for me on Friday while I went to work, which was a treat for Kent not having to go to daycare. Thank you again, Kristen, for watching him! It was awesome to not have to load up my car with baby & his things for a day, especially on a day when it was cold & rainy outside. You are a great aunt!
The birthday Uncle Brett enjoyed playing with Kent, as well as Aunt Amanda.
I have some pics to post from Grandmother Rhodes' birthday party last weekend, which will come soon. (I forgot my camera for this birthday celebration, so am in the process of getting them from Paula's camera to Kyle's computer to my computer to my blog). Gotta love digital technology!
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Separation Anxiety?
I've been back to work full time for a month now. How is it going? Well, overall, as good as can be expected. I can tell you this--boy do I have a new appreciation to all of you moms out there who work full-time outside the home! Or single moms out there....wow, what a huge job! Some days I really enjoy being out doing my job as a RD. Other days all I want to do is be at home with my little boy.
At first it was nice to get out of the same 3 hour baby routine that I was running on all summer long. But now that my time is limited with my boy, I honestly do miss him. There isn't much time in the evenings to do what needs done to keep a house in working order, feed Kent, give him a bath, put him to bed, & then maybe have a few moments with Kyle or to myself. And I'm trying to stay in shape by fitting in a good run when I can, as well as my BSF lessons. (Yes, I did decide to continue with Bible Study Fellowship this year, at least for now. I need something to keep me in the Word everyday. So far I'm really enjoying the study of John this year).
If you haven't been updated about Kent's schedule, so far he is doing as well as can be expected with daycare & his routine. They are doing an excellent job at feeding him at the same times I do, and I can tell they really do enjoy Kent. He still doesn't sleep as well at daycare as he does at home, but it is slowly getting better. Most days he averages about 2 hours in napping total throughout the day at daycare....at home it is usually around 4 hours. So, as you can tell, by the weekend, Kent is definitely catching up on his sleep.
The past few days he has started to figure out that I'm leaving him for the day when I drop him off at daycare. He will look at his teacher, then at me, then give us both a pouty face & make a really cute mad face, then will start to cry....poor baby! I really should try to get a pic of his pouty face sometime soon, and should get a pic of his classroom at daycare so you can see where he spends his days Monday-Friday, 8am-4:30pm.
Thanks for all of your continued prayers for me at work, for Kent, & for Kyle. Blogging time is also limited these days, as you can imagine. But I fit in updates here & there when I can. I know that God doesn't give me anything He doesn't think I can handle, so I hold to this truth as I go about each new day. For now, I'll try not to worry about Kent's cute, but sad, separation anxiety.
At first it was nice to get out of the same 3 hour baby routine that I was running on all summer long. But now that my time is limited with my boy, I honestly do miss him. There isn't much time in the evenings to do what needs done to keep a house in working order, feed Kent, give him a bath, put him to bed, & then maybe have a few moments with Kyle or to myself. And I'm trying to stay in shape by fitting in a good run when I can, as well as my BSF lessons. (Yes, I did decide to continue with Bible Study Fellowship this year, at least for now. I need something to keep me in the Word everyday. So far I'm really enjoying the study of John this year).
If you haven't been updated about Kent's schedule, so far he is doing as well as can be expected with daycare & his routine. They are doing an excellent job at feeding him at the same times I do, and I can tell they really do enjoy Kent. He still doesn't sleep as well at daycare as he does at home, but it is slowly getting better. Most days he averages about 2 hours in napping total throughout the day at daycare....at home it is usually around 4 hours. So, as you can tell, by the weekend, Kent is definitely catching up on his sleep.
The past few days he has started to figure out that I'm leaving him for the day when I drop him off at daycare. He will look at his teacher, then at me, then give us both a pouty face & make a really cute mad face, then will start to cry....poor baby! I really should try to get a pic of his pouty face sometime soon, and should get a pic of his classroom at daycare so you can see where he spends his days Monday-Friday, 8am-4:30pm.
Thanks for all of your continued prayers for me at work, for Kent, & for Kyle. Blogging time is also limited these days, as you can imagine. But I fit in updates here & there when I can. I know that God doesn't give me anything He doesn't think I can handle, so I hold to this truth as I go about each new day. For now, I'll try not to worry about Kent's cute, but sad, separation anxiety.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Mom & Dad Visit Kent in September!
Kent is definitely a more smiley baby & does better at being awake & happy.
Thanks, mom & dad, for a fun visit! We love you!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Happy Birthday Paula!
We love you, Paula! Glad we could be a part of your birthday. Thanks for making her birthday special, Billy. You do a great job at celebrating every moment!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Got the Sniffles...
There is some type of nasty cold going around here. It all started when I got a sore throat & lost my voice last week right before I started back at work. Then I developed a bad stuffy nose/cold this weekend. I prayed that Kent wouldn't end up with it, but it was kind of inevitable that he would catch the cold since he is nursing.
Kent did catch the cold, but is so far managing ok. Kyle & I being first time parents didn't know what we could do to help him when he woke up at 11:15pm on Monday night. (he usually sleeps from around 8pm to 7am now...thank goodness!) So I knew something was wrong when he woke up crying. Kyle did an awesome job as daddy calling the pediatrician's call service to get some help/guidance. Kent doesn't like saline drops or the bulb suction thing up his nose at the time you are doing it, but I can tell that it is helping. Poor baby! We also busted out the humidifier that I got as a baby shower gift. (It was honestly one of those things at Babies R Us that I just kind of added to the registry as an afterthought...boy am I glad I added it! How nice to not have to make a trip to the store in the moment!).
Now daddy Kyle also has caught the cold. Mine is still hanging around, but I'm slowly feeling better. So that's been what's up this week. Kent is doing better everyday at daycare, and the daycare is doing a better job at following his schedule. It is an adjustment to just have a couple of precious hours with my little boy in the evenings instead of all day, but I am thankful for every moment with Kent. And after Kent is in bed, it's nice to have some time for just Kyle & myself too. Speaking of, I need to stop blogging & go see my wonderful hubby.
Kent did catch the cold, but is so far managing ok. Kyle & I being first time parents didn't know what we could do to help him when he woke up at 11:15pm on Monday night. (he usually sleeps from around 8pm to 7am now...thank goodness!) So I knew something was wrong when he woke up crying. Kyle did an awesome job as daddy calling the pediatrician's call service to get some help/guidance. Kent doesn't like saline drops or the bulb suction thing up his nose at the time you are doing it, but I can tell that it is helping. Poor baby! We also busted out the humidifier that I got as a baby shower gift. (It was honestly one of those things at Babies R Us that I just kind of added to the registry as an afterthought...boy am I glad I added it! How nice to not have to make a trip to the store in the moment!).
Now daddy Kyle also has caught the cold. Mine is still hanging around, but I'm slowly feeling better. So that's been what's up this week. Kent is doing better everyday at daycare, and the daycare is doing a better job at following his schedule. It is an adjustment to just have a couple of precious hours with my little boy in the evenings instead of all day, but I am thankful for every moment with Kent. And after Kent is in bed, it's nice to have some time for just Kyle & myself too. Speaking of, I need to stop blogging & go see my wonderful hubby.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Back to Work
So where have I been? Where have all of the blog updates gone? Don't worry, I haven't quit blogging yet. I just have started back to work this past Wednesday, so there just hasn't been time for much else after working all day.
Overall, I am glad to be back at my job. I love working in transplant. The work environment is wonderful, which is a huge blessing compared to other places I've worked in the past. I also love my coworker who is a minister's wife and a great support to me as a new mom. I owe her big time for taking up the slack for me while I was gone for 12 weeks. So thank you, Tanya!
The past 3 days of daycare have been an adjustment, but have gone about as well as can be expected, which I'm thankful. The workers at the daycare fill out a communication form everyday that they send home with me so I can get a glimpse of what Kent's day was like. For all 3 days, he got a "happy day" comment, which made me feel good. Yesterday Kent even participated in making an American flag in honor of 9/11 with his handprint! The form tells me things like what time they changed his diaper & what was in the diaper, what time he took a nap & for how long, what time they fed him & how much he ate. The first day they forgot to give Kent his reflux medicine, but did better after that. Kent also isn't sleeping well at the daycare (usually about 1 hour total all day, which makes for a very tired, cranky baby in the evenings) mainly because he has to sleep on his back (he sleeps on his belly at home). The daycare workers told me to go and buy a swaddling blanket that looks like a baby sleeping bag to try out next week, as they said he does sleep better on his back when he is swaddled. He just kicks off his blanket & wakes himself up. So I'm about to make another Babies R' Us run today. The daycare also doesn't understand Babywise, which I was kind of surprised about. It has taken a lot of communication on my part to stress to them the importance of following his feeding schedule, etc. One day this week they didn't follow the schedule, which made for a stressful evening for me because I didn't know what Kent needed. After talking with his teachers the next day, they did better. I dont' want to sound like a "OCD" mother, as I know I have to be a little flexible since they are caring for 7 other infants along with Kent. But at the same time, I am paying quite a bit for them to care for him.
So in summary, please pray that Kent will sleep better while at daycare and that the workers will do their best to follow his usual routine.
Another good thing happened just last night....Kent is sleeping longer at night now...hallelujah! This means that I have eliminated his 10pm feeding, aka "dreamfeed." So the last time I feed him is around 7-7:30pm, I give him a bath, then he is in bed around 8:30-9pm and doesn't wake up until 7am! This works out great since I am getting up earlier (5:30am) for work. The only thing I don't like about this earlier bedtime is that it makes it difficult to be out & about later at night or at a friend's house. I'm hoping to learn how to flex this around as I adjust to this new part of Kent's routine.
As for breastfeeding, I'm still able to manage in the mornings & evening while working. Kent so far hasn't rejected me after being fed from a pumped bottle at daycare, so I'm thankful. I'm going to try to keep up with this for as long as possible. Pumping at work is working out well, as my job is pretty flexible. I can pump either in my office or my nutrition consult room down the hall that has private bathroom, so the setup for pumping success is there. It is extra work & you do have to be pretty good at planning your day out in order to figure out when to pump, etc, but so far I've managed ok.
Thanks to everyone for your prayers as I adjust to returning to work, in addition to the never ending job of being the mother Kent needs.
Overall, I am glad to be back at my job. I love working in transplant. The work environment is wonderful, which is a huge blessing compared to other places I've worked in the past. I also love my coworker who is a minister's wife and a great support to me as a new mom. I owe her big time for taking up the slack for me while I was gone for 12 weeks. So thank you, Tanya!
The past 3 days of daycare have been an adjustment, but have gone about as well as can be expected, which I'm thankful. The workers at the daycare fill out a communication form everyday that they send home with me so I can get a glimpse of what Kent's day was like. For all 3 days, he got a "happy day" comment, which made me feel good. Yesterday Kent even participated in making an American flag in honor of 9/11 with his handprint! The form tells me things like what time they changed his diaper & what was in the diaper, what time he took a nap & for how long, what time they fed him & how much he ate. The first day they forgot to give Kent his reflux medicine, but did better after that. Kent also isn't sleeping well at the daycare (usually about 1 hour total all day, which makes for a very tired, cranky baby in the evenings) mainly because he has to sleep on his back (he sleeps on his belly at home). The daycare workers told me to go and buy a swaddling blanket that looks like a baby sleeping bag to try out next week, as they said he does sleep better on his back when he is swaddled. He just kicks off his blanket & wakes himself up. So I'm about to make another Babies R' Us run today. The daycare also doesn't understand Babywise, which I was kind of surprised about. It has taken a lot of communication on my part to stress to them the importance of following his feeding schedule, etc. One day this week they didn't follow the schedule, which made for a stressful evening for me because I didn't know what Kent needed. After talking with his teachers the next day, they did better. I dont' want to sound like a "OCD" mother, as I know I have to be a little flexible since they are caring for 7 other infants along with Kent. But at the same time, I am paying quite a bit for them to care for him.
So in summary, please pray that Kent will sleep better while at daycare and that the workers will do their best to follow his usual routine.
Another good thing happened just last night....Kent is sleeping longer at night now...hallelujah! This means that I have eliminated his 10pm feeding, aka "dreamfeed." So the last time I feed him is around 7-7:30pm, I give him a bath, then he is in bed around 8:30-9pm and doesn't wake up until 7am! This works out great since I am getting up earlier (5:30am) for work. The only thing I don't like about this earlier bedtime is that it makes it difficult to be out & about later at night or at a friend's house. I'm hoping to learn how to flex this around as I adjust to this new part of Kent's routine.
As for breastfeeding, I'm still able to manage in the mornings & evening while working. Kent so far hasn't rejected me after being fed from a pumped bottle at daycare, so I'm thankful. I'm going to try to keep up with this for as long as possible. Pumping at work is working out well, as my job is pretty flexible. I can pump either in my office or my nutrition consult room down the hall that has private bathroom, so the setup for pumping success is there. It is extra work & you do have to be pretty good at planning your day out in order to figure out when to pump, etc, but so far I've managed ok.
Thanks to everyone for your prayers as I adjust to returning to work, in addition to the never ending job of being the mother Kent needs.
Friday, September 4, 2009
Happy 92nd, Grandmother Herd!
Grandmother Herd requested for her birthday cake, a blueberry scone cobbler thing prepared by Paula. It was delicious, of course! For the recipe, I believe Paula will put it on her recipe website (www.salad-in-a-jar.com)
Despite turning 92, Grandmother Herd is really with it, and is a good example to me of how to not give up on learning new things. She is one of the few grandparents I know who can use a computer, operates a digital camera, emails, and makes greeting cards. She has a wonderful gift of arranging flowers, and cheers up the residents at her retirement community, Lakewood Village, with various flower arrangements on a daily basis. It's neat to see how God is continuing to use her to bring a smile to other's faces despite her age.
I think the next family birthday party is Paula's, so watch for it soon. She claims that she doesn't want a birthday party, but whatever...Paula, we are going to do something to celebrate, so there!
Have a blessed day, everyone! We love you, Grandmother Herd!
Thursday, September 3, 2009
10-11 week old cutie!
As for some Kent updates, at his 2 month check-up last week, he was 13 pounds, 1 ounce, and was 25 inches long....a BIG boy! His reflux is managable, but some days are still better than others when it comes to eating. The biggest headache that we are dealing with is that the daycare we are putting him in won't put babies to sleep on their stomachs unless they have a doctor's note. Well, Kent's pediatrician wouldn't write a note. So I tried putting Kent on his back for his naps 1 day last week. Let's just say, it didn't go well....he didn't get any naps the entire day and would scream the entire time he was on his back. So I've switched back to his stomach & decided to let the daycare deal with this problem. I have a feeling that they may need to make an exception to this ridiculous rule. (I know, I know....sleeping on the back is supposed to be safer, prevent SIDS. But I think you have to consider the whole baby...and Kent is a BIG boy who holds up his head well.....I think his risk of suffocating himself is considerably lower). Anyway, I'll get off my soapbox about that.
So most days this week I'm just enjoying every moment with my little boy. After 11 weeks, I am definitely in love with him. I can see how moms grow more in love with their kids the longer they have kids. Being a mom is so wonderful & is one of God's greatest blessings. That little smile that he gives me when he wakes up in the morning, even when I am tired and want to keep sleeping, is well worth waking up for.
I love this picture of Kent in his "cool dude" shades. Such a sweetie!
Please keep us in your prayers as we make the transition of me going back to work & Kent going to daycare this coming week. It isn't going to be easy, and I pray not to have to work full-time forever. But in the present circumstance, I'm thankful for the job I have, for the daycare that is right on site at the hospital for me to see my little boy whenever I want during the day.
Kyle is continuing to stay busy with his business, is getting closer to having his website up & ready. God is good, is continuing to provide for us in His own way & time. Thanks for all of your prayers & support.
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